by  Lance Haun
相信很多人都曾有过这样的经历，所招聘的职员在第一天要上班的时候却改变了主意，不来就职，这是个残酷却不争的事实，而作者就经历过这样的事情，并且为我们分析为什么会出现这种情况以及应以何种心态来面对这样的事实。
I was pacing in my office. It was 9:45 am, but it felt much later.
Every time a person walked past my door, I stood up expecting to see him. It wasn’t him, of course, so I would sit back down and wonder how many phone calls are too many? Two voice mails, two texts and